Monday, January 27, 2020

Round 4 Session 18 (Jan 7) and Part 2

Note:  this entry was created on Jan 21 but got lost in draft form until today (Jan 27) as I wanted to include a picture in the entry.  Picture added today and …. away we go.

Wow, this blog is well behind the times and I am to blame as I have not made the time to address this in a timely fashion.  We have been very busy, as usual, since Christmas and we now find ourselves enjoying a nice respite in Kauai with the family.  But before I write about that I would like to update you on some significant activities that have shaped our days and in some cases our future.  The part 2 above is an attempt to continue where I left off just before Christmas.  The most significant thing I missed was my work at WestJet.

I had mentioned that I had some Gate Training in mid December and that did happen.  It was 4 intense and long days of bridging aircraft, preparing for Gate Controller activities, preparing for “Expo” duties (assisting the gate controller), deplaning procedure and of course boarding procedures.  All or any of those activities could show up on my daily roster of activities when I show up for work at the airport.  It was a pretty intense period as our instructor wanted us to feel the pressure associated with getting “on time” departures of our aircraft.  I soon learned that the most important part of being a Gate Controller was the “symphony” of activities that had to work, in a specific order, to make “on time” departure possible.  It involves our team members, crew on board, our gate apron folks who control the grounds around the aircraft, removal and loading of luggage, fueling etc., the airport authority and of course our guests.  When all is properly directed and controlled the symphony works well but with so many players there is plenty of room for error and thus making it impossible to get out “on time”.  I enjoyed the challenge and over time have become more familiar and relaxed about these processes.  The significant thing is that adding these activities to my job list makes for a more diverse and interesting day at work.  The training was on Dec 10 through 13 and these activities are now part of my job.  I am happy in this role at the airport.

Our Christmas this year was a bit different.  Since neither Gray (and family) or Tara-Lee (and family) were available as they were out west for the Christmas period, both Freddi and I decided to work through Christmas and enjoy our family Christmas on Dec 29th when Tara-Lee and family were available to spend the day.  That happened as planned and we had a fun family day sitting about in PJs for the day and enjoyed a nice family dinner complete with turkey.  Naturally, we ate too much but thoroughly enjoyed the day or relaxation, gifts and lots of chatter.  Christmas is not a day but a celebration with family about the house.

Once again, we enjoyed bringing in the new year with some lake family and friends.  We had a nice evening dinner, some champagne and we brought in 2020 at midnight with the usual television production from Times Square and other places in Canada.  This group is quite diverse, so we have pretty funny conversations.  We did remember past participants in this annual event and wished everyone every success in the new year.

On the medical front, I had a CT Scan on Dec 28 and a Dr visit on January 8th.  The scan was very routine and this time I did not have to ingest the foul-tasting liquid over two a 2 hour period so I was out of the hospital in just one hour.  I did have Chemo treatment Round 4 Session number 18 on January 7th.

The actual session was uneventful and went according to plan.  I did have the usual side effects and spent the better part of 7 days figuring out what would be next and steeling myself for those effects and changes.  I wanted to be well by Jan 17th as that was the date of departure for a vacation in Kauai.  On Jan 8th I met Dr. Jonker and we reviewed the results of the CT Scan.  Basically, nothing had changed and the report contained many references to “unremarkable” observations.  That was very good news as I intended to ask the Dr if I could take a break from Chemo as I am tiring of the process, effects and continuous search for a balanced day without any side effects.  He was not surprised or resistant to my request as he understands how long term exposure to Chemo has physical, emotional and mental effects on patients.  I have had my share of those effects and am happy to report that my next activity is in mid March when I have a CT Scan followed by an update with the Dr in April.  In the interim, no Chemo and a chance to make myself feel better in many ways.  This is a great opportunity for me as I was feeling a bit lost and that things were no longer in my control.  I will continue to be “with Cancer” but not a captive of Cancer treatment effects. I am happy about that status change.

Some of you may be aware of another event that entered my life in very early January.  It was a bad day when I fell asleep driving home from an early morning shift.  Yes, it finally happened, and the accident has resulted in the loss of my favourite car due to its encounter with a telephone pole and my carelessness.  I managed to do all of this on an empty road and therefore no one else was involved.  I was fortunate enough to come out of this unscathed other than my confidence being a little shattered due to my fatigue and ability to sleep well at normal times.  The police and responders were very kind and caring and somewhat amazed that I was not hurt at all.  The insurance company took my car away and declared it a “write-off”.  They provided me with a rental while we sorted out the details.  On January 12th I flew to Toronto to see a prospect car as it was the same model and year of the car I had just lost.  On the 13th I test drove and purchased the auto.  I stayed in Mississauga for the night to see my sister Lucy and then drove back to Ottawa in my new wheels on Tuesday morning.  The new car is identical to the last one but only 80k km fewer in mileage.  My next step is to re-evaluate some of the things that put me in such a position and attempt to rectify them.  That might mean moving to afternoon shifts at the airport instead of early morning shifts which interrupt normal sleep patterns. Stay tuned.

On Jan 17th we departed YOW for LIH in HI in a small group of 5 as we were on our way for our planned visit to Lihue for the family for the week of 18th through 25th.  Tara-Lee and family flew with us and we met Gray and family in YVR.  We flew together on the last leg to Hawaii.  We arrived late in the evening and settled into our accommodation for the first night.  It was very nice waking up in Kauai the next morning.  Skylar (8) and Kaia (3) have been having a lot of fun together and the adults have been having meals together in the large accommodation we have rented in the Marriott Lagoons.  It has been very fun, and we are starting day 4 here at the Marriott and then going to a Lu’au this evening.  

2020 Rodier Family Olympics … amusing ourselves as they prepared our accommodation at The Lagoons Kauai
 I am going to stop here, and I will come back in a short period to update you on things about my health, emotional ability and my improved mental state.  I am looking forward to improvements in all areas.

Be well and thank you for dropping in.  Feel free to contact me should you have any questions.


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